In Tuesdays with Morrie by Mitch Albom, Morrie, Mitch’s retired professor who is dying, is teaching me how to appreciate life more, to accept that death is going to happen, and lifes greatest lesson.
Even though he is dying he appreciates everything that he has left: “He nodded toward the window with the sunshine streaming in. “You see that? You can go out there, outside, anytime. You can run up and down the block and go crazy. I can’t do that. I can’t go out. I can’t run. I can’t be out there without fear of getting sick. But you know what? I appreciate that window more than you do.”” I never thought about a window in any special way. I never realized that a window is as close as some people will ever get to outside. That a window is the last piece of outside that some people will ever see. We all take so much for granted, and it’s a shame because if we realized how lucky and special we are, we might try to help others get better, or appreciate what they have.
Death: “Everyone knows they’re going to die, but nobody believes it. If we did, we would do way you can actually be more involved in your life while you’re living.” I guess that we all know it’s going to happen, but believing it is too hard to believe. If today I took my last breath, felt my last touch, or said my last words, I would be ashamed. Ashamed that I spent so much of my life trying to fit in, ashamed that I haven’t even figured out who I am yet, and ashamed that every breath I took, I took for granted.
“Learn how to die, and you learn how to live.” If only life and death were that easy. You can’t take a class and learn how to die and live, there is no passing or failing. Learning to die and live comes from inside of you. I still haven’t figured it out yet, I really don’t believe that anyone has. Life’s greatest lesson is learning how to die, then how to live.